How does one succeed in life?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Ask yourself:

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Making more friends is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Would you raise your children like your parents raised you?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What I need from you?

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Do humans know everything they need to know?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

I caught my husband of 20 years looking at inappropriate pics of women on TikTok or Instagram. I'm not sure., but when I told him he got mad and made excuses of why they popped up. I then told him how I've snuck on his phone and saw what he's been looking at . We had a horrible big fight. I asked him why did he even marry me when I see the type he likes . Nothing like me, I'm petite, blonde and blue eyes. These women are dark haired dark eyed and have curvy bodies, large breasts, etc. I just don't feel the same about him after this. I can't get over this

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Has your mother ever walked in on you at an inappropriate time?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

What happens when your partner doesn't see the value in you and continuously hurts you by searching for something in others knowing it hurts you?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

That's it for today.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How do you deal with neighbors who are always telling you what to do?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Procrastinates a lot.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Does not procrastinate.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.